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EM Hager's life
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We live in the garden of change. My Intention now is resilient master gardening
Resentments and regrets are seeds which I do not want to grow...The secret of this is taking care-each day-tending the tender and the resilient...new shoots of life.
Resilience allows me to renew myself even in the trenches of love and loss. Caregiving is a gamechanger, but all loss is depleting. Remembering to first care well for ourselves and then others, is not selfish. To put on your oxygen mask first, is just responsible, evergreen behavior. I remember to treat all as worthy (including myself) so I am able to care more. (How can I give a drink to others when my own cup is a sieve?)
The answer is always love. (But what was the question, again?)
Renewal is about remembering what I came here to do. It’s not always clear in the trenches of change. We must, somehow, get back to our center…our garden into which we can plant new stories that fit us now. If we can remember the joy behind the sadness while we are in the throes, we become resilient and evergreen–like the giant redwoods (Gratitude of Redwoods No. 5).
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My Life in (the important) bullet points:
 Have you tried sound meditation? Please do. Try mine on YouTube: SHELTER in GRACE SOUND MEDITATION
• Praire born & gone
I was born an artistic child in a blue bubble in my red hometown of Tulsa, Oklahoma. My first career was a registered Landscape Architect with a West coast education, doing water and earthworks in OR, CA, OK, TN, GA & TX. It was satisfying until it changed. So I changed...and moved, as my lineage has done episodically to CA. • Now What & a new plan San Francisco began further entrepreneurial explorations but, this time, in the digital landscape creating bleeding edge projects in imagery, digital cartography & mapping...Now What Software...with time layers to see for yourself - when, and where we were. It was "proto-google-ian" (ahem...back in the ancient days before Google and an useful Internet). It was fun for a decade...or so. Then it changed on me again. • My new plan stopped working... The multi-media techie bubble tanked us: personal and corporate bankruptcy, divorce and the death of my brother. (No matter how many times he jumped out of planes, skydiving did not give him wings...) • Then I became a caregiver...because who else was going to do it? Eleven years of caregiving just happened and it changed me. But this tragic journey, brought me (eventually) back to something I had lost: my original center. I realized I had been a pretzel of adaptability and...more importantly...fear-based. This is where the Fieldguide came into being. It helps me remember that I stand for love. We all do – all us human knuckleheads... • And now renewal All of the above informs my life, my work in hospice, my writing and the various ways I serve people at this edge of renewal. My prayer is this: May it/I help caregivers and make the planet a more caring place. Amen |
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My rules (and gifts to you) will get you back to center—your center— where you will (probably) not be a caregiving health statistic, and (definitely) you will make better decisions for your loved ones who are infirm and in our care. You will get first crack at the (upcoming) YouTube videos (Sound Meditations & other renewal practices), audio meditations, and the memoir of Betty and I– girlQuantum–A Time Traveling Memoir of a Better Remembering - Fall 2021.
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